Type of Friends You Need To Reject From Your Life

In life, You will Lead Your Own Life. However, the people around you will make all the difference, either it is good or bad. But the problem is, how to choose the right person, how to find the people that can motivate you, support, encourage, help and inspire you. Here are some of the people that you need to ignore them as quick as possible:

1. Backstabber

Often they call this kind of people FRENEMY. They can be you very best friends when you face them, but when you turn away, they lie about you to other. They will go to the TOP with you, but will dumb you to the ground. They dare to gossip about their other friends to you, what makes you think they won't say anything about you to theirs? What to do: DON'T EVER TRUST this kind of people AGAIN. Not even ONCE.

2. Do Not Know How To Be Thankful

When you do something nice to them, they don't even thank you for that. They treat you as if that is your duty and you suppose to do that obviously. People who do not appreciate your sincerity and generosity and take things for granted.

3. The Life "Planner"

He/she forgot to return your call for weeks, doesn't acknowledge your special occasions, always last minutes rescheduling your plan, or even MIA..... why you should care about this kind of people when they don't even respect and care about your special time or your life. You need to and must spend your time with those who really appreciate you as a friend.

4. The Pretender

You plan and buy for him/her gifts during his/her birthday, but when it's your birthday, all you get is "oh, it's your birthday?!... Happy Birthday Darling..."

5. The Facebook Friends

You will not get anything from them other than messages or posts. Shut your computer off, and meet the real people. who knows one of them will be your future best best friends. Your true friend will stand by you when you really need them.

6. The Broke Buddy

in simple Hokkian words they called them "Chau Ka Siao", meaning those who waited for you to pay their bill and never pay you back. Remember, your money is your money, Not their ATM.

7. People Who Don't Invite You To Their Weekend Activities

Whether it is party, drinks, Bars, gathering or just a simple dinner, they never invite you and you find out how fun and enjoy they all without you by seeing their photos on your facebook newsfeed.

8. The Competitors

Whether you buy anything nice or go for nice dinner or holiday, he/she will definitely have a plan ahead and better than you.

9. The Walking Dead

Whatever you ask them, they will say "Don't Know" or "No". stay away from people who do not have any plan for their life, no goals, no motivation, no purpose, no support, and no days and nights. This Walking Dead kind of people won't kill you but they will definitely kill you motivations and your enthusiastic.

WHAT TO DO:

1. Spend your time with those who really appreciate you as a friend.

2. Seek out friends who support you and you'll be a lot happier in all aspects of life.

3. Surround yourself with ambitious plans and big goals.

4. Find friends that might have same taste of music. so you can go drink or party to the same place with them.

5. You need to find the taskmaster that lead the way, make sure everything is done, deadlines are met and goals are reached.
6. TRUST your real friend.

7. People that can lead by example is the best person in life, because they have been through it, been there and done that before. Full of knowledge.

8. Find a friend that will always give you positive constructive feedback, Not Gossip.